5 Reasons Why You Should Schedule A Couples Massage With Your Significant Other

New ideas for a date can oftentimes be hard to figure out when you have been with your significant other for a long time. One date idea that many couples have not tried before is getting a massage together. Our spa in Staten Island offers a whole range of massages for you and yours to experience together. You might think that it isn’t a good idea simply because you aren’t interacting at all with your partner, but these reasons may have you thinking otherwise. 

It Increases Intimacy

Intimacy is an important part of any relationship. It increases satisfaction for both people in the relationship and allows you to connect on a deeper level. Getting a massage not only allows you both to experience something different, but it also gives you something new to talk about before and after the massage. This is even more apparent if getting a massage is new for both of you.

Encourages Togetherness

Sometimes we can neglect our partner because our lives can be too busy. Scheduling a massage forces you to have something to do together that can’t be moved to another day. This forces you to put everything away and simply be together. Prioritizing each other can help deal with all of the stress of normal life and help you relax for a few hours. 

Living In The Now

Our daily lives can be stressful enough when you are trying to balance work, love, and alone time. Part of this stress is because you are reflecting on past mistakes or looking to the future. This can leave you thinking less about your partner or more on other tasks at hand. A couple’s massage forces you to live in the now and relaxes to the point of forgetting everything else. It makes you think about the person you are sharing this moment with rather than neglecting them. 

It Teaches You How To Share Space

It is only natural to want some alone time from your partner and everyone else. If you and your partner share a living space together this can sometimes be difficult. Getting a massage together allows you to be in a shared space together but since you are getting a massage separate from one another it helps you learn that you can be in that shared space without interacting with each other. This knowledge can then be taken into your everyday lives.

It Relieves Stress

Outside stress can sometimes infect your relationship. Your partner, whether they realize it or not, can shoulder some of that stress onto themselves. This can lead to unforeseen issues that arise between each other. Getting a massage relaxes both of you, which allows you to not only release this stress but talk about your issues in a healthy way. Encouraging thoughtful conversations between each other can help maintain a fun and exciting relationship even when times are tough.

Schedule A Couples Massage Today

Our spa in Staten Island has everything ranging from CBD massages to hot stone massages and everything in between. Most of these massages are available for couples as well. Contact us or schedule your massage online today!